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Feb 15, 2021Liked by Carrie Seidman

Once again, Carrie, you’ve made me think about some things I’ve kept in storage even though I’m generally an open book by nature. I went cold turkey when I was told they were retiring my position. I’d experienced it before and it didn’t blindside me. I quickly realized it was another disguised blessing, that getting off the road, literally, would give me an opportunity to take care of myself physically and emotionally. Now you’ve gone and inspired me to start writing again, get my story down for my family. But I won’t tell them everything. All the best to one of the best.

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Feb 14, 2021Liked by Carrie Seidman

Carrie you speak for so many with your gifts, thank you. 4 decades of simmering in the crucible of continued distillation of a well honed craft brings you and those you touch with your words to higher levels. Maybe the 5th step is clear honesty and like the 4 agreements, be impeccable with your word, for that heavenly reservation. I was slow to catch up on the SHT split but all too familiar myself with pattern of no good job goes unpunished and have learned the power of self discipline and comfort on " The Road Less Travelled". Current times seem to operate inverse parameters, the more you are ostracized and judged, the greater Truth is probably being told and truly better Works you are probably doing. You speak to and for so many, from the ❤. Thank you for being a year round Valentine for us all, we are with you on the journey.

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Feb 13, 2021Liked by Carrie Seidman

An exceptional writing, Carrie. Personally, I'm enjoying the benefits of you being set free. Happy Valentine's Day!

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Feb 13, 2021Liked by Carrie Seidman

No matter what, it’s their loss. And I think this transition will be YOUR gain!

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Feb 13, 2021Liked by Carrie Seidman

I so look forward to being inspired when one of your posts pop into my in box! Thank you for sticking around, Carrie!!!

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Carrie, those who don't respond are wimps, in my opinion...and they'll pay a price for their wimpiness. Just sayin'.

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Feb 12, 2021Liked by Carrie Seidman

Another well written piece. Onward and upward! Happy Valentine's Day!

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Feb 12, 2021Liked by Carrie Seidman

You are free from the HT and, and welcomed by the community-- on your own. Be proud!

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Feb 12, 2021Liked by Carrie Seidman

Powerful and definitely food for thought!

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Feb 12, 2021Liked by Carrie Seidman

This is so powerful, Carrie. Who doesn't have hidden open wounds waiting to be healed. It's called living. Thanks once again for a beautifully written chronicle and permitting us to share.

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Feb 12, 2021Liked by Carrie Seidman

When you announced your departure from the H-T, I was really curious about the cause. You speak here as if something happened that more or less obliged you to leave. I also never saw anything from the publisher or editor thanking you for your wonderful contribution to local journalism. Did I miss something? Is there an NDA involved? Your description of your letter has made me more curious than ever.

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Feb 12, 2021Liked by Carrie Seidman

I was always writing letters to people - particularly City government. Mike would say to me - Why bother? You know it's not going to change anything. I would tell him that at least it would get it off my chest, and that's all I cared about. If I didn't, it would just all churn around in my head for days. As soon as I wrote the letter and sent it, I was free. Some people and counselors tell you to throw it away or delete it off the computer or burn it, but for me, the final act of actually sending the letter, whether by email or snail mail, was what allowed me to let go.

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Feb 12, 2021Liked by Carrie Seidman

Long ago, I sent a letter (before emails) to an uncle of mine who totally abandoned my family after his brother (my dad) died suddenly in his sleep. Letting him know my dad would be turning in his grave. Apparently my mom was to blame because she had 6 children and my dad’s executive position forced stress and ultimately his death. I kept a copy and showed it to my mom. The look of appreciation glowed from her lovely face. She was at peace and thrilled for my courage to send on her behalf. Carrie, your story reminded me of that completed task. Thanks for the memories 👏👏😘

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Feb 12, 2021Liked by Carrie Seidman

Great article! I am so enjoying Carrie ‘s Chronicles!

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Feb 12, 2021Liked by Carrie Seidman

.....instead as a nice bit of clean punctuation at the end of a 40 year paragraph.

A very thought provoking article Carrie, and a great piece of writing. I thought that above phrase was especially creative.

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Feb 12, 2021Liked by Carrie Seidman

I always wondered how you’d forgiven. This is excellent information. I have a daughter going through a divorce. I’m forwarding this letter to her. Thank you. 😘

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